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    Question: 

    Not happy with my life. Husband big drinker. Never hit me. We have two grown children. I own a house and I want out. I have been married for 30 years. So confused!!!

    State: 
    New Jersey
    Answer: 

    If you have been a resident of New Jersey for one year you can file a no-fault divorce action based on Separation if the husband and wife have lived separately for a period of at least eighteen months without a reasonable expectation of reconciliation.

    Otherwise, you'll have to file based on one of the following:

    • Extreme physical or mental cruelty
    • Adultery
    • Desertion for a period of twelve or more months (Parties that have ceased to cohabit as man and wife constitutes desertion - the parties may live in the same house. Desertion may be claimed after twelve months of lack of sexual relations)
    • Addiction (Habitual drunkenness or drug use for twelve or more consecutive months)
    • Institutionalization for mental illness for a period of twelve or more consecutive months.
    • Imprisonment for eighteen or more months after the marriage
    • Deviant Sexual Conduct

    - The Divorce.com Team

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