How can I get divorced?

You can file for a divorce in New York based on the grounds of abandonment, all that is required is one year apart and you've certainly got that covered. The court will need proof that your spouse was served with notice of the impending divorce, but since you have no contact info, the traditional methods of service via mail or process server will be inadequate. The court should allow service to be made by publication. This involves publishing the divorce petition in a newspaper a specified amount of time. Be sure to keep copies of the paper, you'll need to furnish them along with proof of how long they ran to the court. - The Divorce.com Team

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