My case is complicaded

You didn't provide enough detail to really answer your questions here, like your current location? Brazil or New Jersey. Where was the Restraining Order issued and for how long? Assuming you've left the country and without knowing the specifics of Brazilian law on the subject, it would seem you might be able get a Brazilian divorce and have that recognized in the US. To find out more about the validity of your foreign divorce you will have to contact the office of the attorney general in the state where you got married or wish to have your divorce recognized. This will not be a simple and quick process, especially if you are attempting to handle it long distance. It sounds like an attorney could be especially helpful in this case. - The Divorce.com Team

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